Attended Ceremony
A private ash scattering cruise for your family. Up to 6 passengers, 90\u2013120 minutes at sea.
Be There for the
Final Farewell
An attended ceremony gives your family the opportunity to be present at the moment of scattering. It's an intimate, private experience on the water \u2014 just your family, the captain, and the open sea.
Ceremonies typically last 90 to 120 minutes from departure to return. There is no script and no rush. The captain guides the process, but the ceremony is yours to shape however feels right.
Many families include music, readings, prayers, or simply quiet reflection. Flower options are available, including rose sprays and loose roses that drift on the water after the scattering.
Ceremony Details
- Up to 6 passengers
- 90–120 minutes total
- 3 nautical miles offshore
- Captain-guided ceremony
- Music and readings welcome
- Flower options available
- GPS coordinates provided
- Scattering certificate
- EPA filing included
Contact us for pricing and availability
What to Expect
Meet at the Dock
Your family arrives at our Carolina Beach departure point. The captain greets you, goes over the plan, and ensures everyone is comfortable before setting out.
Journey to the Scattering Site
The boat heads approximately 3 nautical miles offshore. This is a quiet, beautiful ride — time to settle in, take in the coast, and prepare for the ceremony.
The Ceremony
The captain slows the vessel and the ceremony begins. Families may share readings, play music, say prayers, scatter flowers, and take their time with the farewell. There is no rush.
A Moment of Reflection
The boat remains at the scattering site for as long as the family needs. Many families spend a few quiet minutes watching the flowers drift on the water.
Journey Back to Shore
The return trip is often quieter. Families return to the dock knowing the farewell was handled with dignity and care.
Make It Yours
Every ceremony is different. Here are some of the ways families personalize the experience.
Music
Play a favorite song through a portable speaker on board.
Readings
Share a poem, scripture, letter, or personal words.
Prayer
Include a prayer or blessing led by family or the captain.
Flowers
Scatter loose roses or a full rose spray into the water.
Photos & Video
Capture the ceremony with your own camera or phone.
Quiet Reflection
Simply be present on the water with no formal structure.
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